Building Godly, Intentional
& Healthy Relationships
Join our faith-based academy where singles and couples learn to build relationships that honor God and flourish in love.
About Our
Founded by Mrs. Esther Fadumiye, our academy is dedicated to nurturing godly relationships that reflect Christ's love. With years of pastoral experience and a heart for mentoring, Pastor Esther guides young Christian adults through the beautiful journey of intentional dating, engagement, and marriage.
We believe that healthy relationships are built on biblical principles, open communication, and mutual respect. Our programs combine scriptural wisdom with practical guidance to help you build a foundation that will last a lifetime.
Our Programs
Transform your relationship journey
Coaching program
A structured, result-oriented process that helps you close the gap where you are and where God wants you to be in your marital journey
Weekly or bi-weekly sessions
Pre-coaching assessment worksheet
Accountability & support
Media
Regular touchpoints to keep you connected, growing, and engaged with our community and biblical principles.
Bite-sized insights
Weekly content
Practical tips
Fireside Chats
Monthly intimate conversations about relationships, faith, and life with Mrs. Esther.
Monthly session
Live Q&A format
Online
Lives Transfomed
Hear from our community members
“Each session with Pastor Esther was a masterclass in building a Christ-centred, emotionally healthy, and deeply connected marriage. She taught us vital topics that still shape our relationship today: clarifying expectations, understanding love languages, and managing finances together with transparency. She created a space where we could speak honestly and grow.
What stood out the most was how insightful every session was. It wasn’t just about preparing for a wedding day; it was about preparing for a lifetime. And now, three years later, those conversations and lessons have been fundamental to our marriage. We still refer back to them when navigating decisions or moments of tension. We are so grateful for the seeds she planted in us and are indeed highly blessed to have her as a marriage counsellor. “
My name is Mrs Adepoju Oluwatosin. I got married on the 4th of March 2006 at Gospel Apostolic Church. My husband and I were of the same commission. He was in Evangelism unit while I was in the choir, both leaders in the youth forum fervently serving the Lord. It was a glorious Union with so much expectation as the Lord had given several promises that delighted our minds, so the journey began. Shortly after the wedding, two weeks precisely l lost my mother in-law and my husband had to be shuttling between Lagos and Oshogbo for the burial arrangements. Little did I know that was the beginning of my nightmares. I never knew that my Sister in-laws had an agenda of pushing me out of the marriage for reasons best known to them. I never had any inkling that my husband’s constant travelling were an avenue to plan his exit from the marriage. This was due to several false scary prophecies that he was made to believe of which if not adhere can lead to his death or insanity. To achieve this, my husband told me had a business opportunity in Abuja which I gladly obliged unknowing to me was the escape route. We kept talking on the phone so I never suspected any foul play.
It was our son’s one year birthday, (because I got pregnant the month I got married -hallelujah). I called his line it wasn’t going through, i was so naive to believe all he told me not to bother coming to Abuja because of the little child, I don’t where he lives in supposed “Abuja”, (although he was in Oshogbo all along) and I had to call the sister informing them of what happened and I got the worst shock of my life. The sister that posed to be my friend told me “that it’s my cup of tea, i should fix it, then reminded me of the conversation i had with my husband 3 days after the wedding, fix it, she said.
That was the beginning of a 3 years Marital trauma. God in His infinite mercies gave me access to the rivers of help, comfort, support and solace via the ministry of Mrs. Esther Fadumiye – LUVREGARDLESS.
LuvRegardless was God’s hand the lifted me when I was, battered, shattered, hopeless and rejected. My life was crumbling down, I never envisaged it, it was a Christian courtship, I had God’s promise, questions raged my heart, it was unanswered for years, my family were angry, my son was innocently looking forward to me, I became a single mother, though married it was an unbearable pain. I bless God for succour and hope I had via Luvregardless all through the ordeal. I got ray of hope, light via God’s words on the platform of regardless. I remembered when I wanted to call it a quit and leave for another marriage Pastor Esther gave me a scripture from God Job14,v7-9,i never believed i would neither marry nor love my husband again, but she kept encouraging me to pray for him, it was so weird, anti what I was feeling, but it worked! All through the 3 years ordeal, God stood by me via regardless platform.
On the 6th of April 2009 God gave me a word through His servant, Pastor Esther, 2Cor.7v5-7 and July 2009,3 months after my lost husband found his way back home. I wasn’t surprised because God had prepared my heart via several messages of forgiveness until I forgave he could not make it home.
After his arrival, I took him to meet Pst & Pst Mrs Fadumiye. We began several therapy sessions of God’s words for healing and wholeness. Today by the grace and mercies of God my Marriage is like heaven on earth. God blessed us with a baby afterwards and we are all in God’s vineyard serving the Lord together. It is of no doubt that God instituted LuvRegardless for the healing of homes, heart seated wounds, Help to the shattered, hope to the hopeless in fulfillment of His agenda to humanity. Long live LuvRegardless till the coming of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Shalom
I am happily married to Olanike Mary Oluwatowoju who has been my rock, my best friend, and my soulmate. Our marriage is a beautiful journey of 11 (Eleven) Years filled with love, laughter, and adventure. Together, we have built a life that is rich in Joy, Support, and Happiness. I’m grateful for every moment we share, and I look forward to our future together.
Pastor Esther Fadumiye has positively influenced us to know that Godly marriage counseling is a game-changer for us. We have learnt effective Communication tools and strategies to Navigate Challenges and Strengtg for our Relationship.”
Pastor Esther Fadumiye has helped us identify and address underlying issues, improving our understanding and empathy for each other.”
Through Strategic Moment of Counseling with Pastor Esther Fadumiye, we’ve developed healthier conflict resolution skills and a deeper connection, revitalizing our marriage.
Godly Counseling through Pastor Esther has provided a safe space for us to work through challenges and rebuild our relationship, bringing us closer together with God.
Fifteen years ago, as we prepared to begin our journey together in marriage, we had the privilege of receiving premarital counseling from Pastor Esther Fadumiye. Her wisdom, spiritual insight, and genuine care laid a solid foundation for our union. Over the years, her guidance has remained a constant source of strength and clarity, especially during challenging seasons.
Pastor Esther has been more than a mentor—she’s been a spiritual anchor. Even when we faced a major transition, relocating abroad, she offered us timely spiritual counsel that brought direction and peace. Her prayers and counsel have played a pivotal role in shaping the strong, faith-filled marriage we enjoy today.
We are forever grateful for her unwavering support, compassionate heart, and God-led mentorship. Pastor Esther truly exemplifies what it means to walk with couples in love, faith, and purpose.
The LuvRegardless Marriage Academy has come at the most crucial time in the history of marriage and family affairs. With the pressing challenges and ever-increasing rate of divorce, a solution was urgently needed, and I am glad the school of marriage has come to equip and help marriages thrive. The vision, mission and values of this institute are what our generation needs in this dire time.
Having known the convener/founder of Luv Regardless school of marriage, Pastor Esther Fadumiye, for over 20years, I must say that individuals planning to get married and couples already married yet seeking fulfilment in their marriages, have found their anchor. With over twenty years of experience in marriage and having raised godly, successful children from it, Pastor Esther carries the DNA every intending or already married couple needs. Her passion and determination to see families and marriage excel are second to none. Her training and certifications both locally and internationally give her a wide range of expertise for the mission of the school. She is well-versed in what is most pressing in our day and age, which is: the need for the dissemination of relevant/ right knowledge to make marriage work, strategies, preparatory procedures and required intervention at every stage in marriage. The school of marriage would help align and realign values with the view of building right motives and a positive mindset for before and even in marriage.
The school of marriage aims to see families built on well-balanced knowledge with values that would positively impact our societies and nations as a whole.
I hereby recommend and highly endorse the Luv Regardless School of Marriage as the solution to the world’s need for a heaven-on-earth marriage experience.
Wow where do I start? Pastor Esther Fadumiye has been more than a counselor to me. I met her when I was in the pit emotionally, physically, spiritually and mentally and God has used her tremendously for me! It’s beyond counseling my life has transformed since then. I will best describe her as a life coach to me. Her counseling has been so valuable across all spheres of my life, relationships, career, family etc. She is a force and without a debt I bless the day I filled the form for our first counseling session.
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FAQs
Frequently Asked Questions
What is LuvRegardless Marriage Academy all about?
LuvRegardless Marriage Academy is a faith-based coaching platform that helps singles and couples build healthy, purposeful, and God-centered relationships. We teach practical life skills, biblical principles, and emotional maturity for strong marriages.
Who can join the Academy?
The Academy is open to:
- Singles preparing for marriage.
- Engaged couples.
- Newlyweds.
Anyone who desires a stronger, Christ-centered relationship.
What topics do you teach?
We cover: Identity and purpose, God’s design for marriage, Emotional maturity, Communication, courtship, Red flags, Boundaries, Choosing the right partner, Handling rejection, Money matters, and Sexual purity, plus many practical life lessons.
How long is the program and how are classes held?
Programs usually run for 4–52 weeks.
Classes are held online through Zoom, WhatsApp, videos, PDF materials, and simple assignments.
What makes your Academy different?
We offer a practical, faith-based approach built on the values: Faith, Integrity, Purpose, and Growth (FIPG) . Our teachings are simple, relatable, and tailored to Nigerian singles and couples. You also receive personal support.
Do you offer one-on-one coaching and certificates?
Yes. We offer one-on-one coaching, couple coaching, and group coaching.
All participants who complete their program receive a Certificate of Completion.
How do I register and what happens after?
Once you choose your program, you will receive the fee.
After payment, you will be added to the class group, receive your welcome guide, timetable, and begin your coaching journey.